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Write what you know means …

When my granddaughter was not quite three, one of her favorite movies was Disney’s The Aristocrats, but for a while, no one realized she had redubbed it. Then, one day, we heard clearly her request to watch The Rest of the Cats.

She didn’t know the meaning of the word aristocrats, so she heard words she did know. That’s a frame of reference. It’s what we all use every minute of our lives. The brain uses frame of reference when it receives sensations to filter and identify each correctly.

In that same sense, we all filter what we read against our experiences. Does it match, enhance, or refute what we already know? Even when researching a new topic, we have to fit it into our particular frame of reference to make sense of it. That’s also the way we write.

If we write about a certain time, say the summer of 1965, our first response is to fit that into our frame: I was ten years old or that’s the year we moved to Idaho or that’s when Grandpa took up skydiving. We can learn what happened in the greater world that year, but that information will be added to, mixed with, or colored by what we already know about that year in our egocentric world.

And, like my granddaughter, if we’re true to our frame, we use the language of that point of view. We use words that are common to us, the ones that flow naturally from our lips, the ones we don’t have to look up in a dictionary or borrow from a thesaurus.

But, but, but what about writing fiction? Does this mean we can only write about characters like ourselves? Of course, not. As fiction writers we have the privilege of being many selves. We just have to discover and stay within the frame of reference for each character. Only then will our characters ring true.

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26 thoughts on “Write what you know means …”

  1. Excellent line of thought. I loved the part about applying it to our own frame of reference. As writers of fiction we become many people, and it is important we maintain the aura of each character.


  2. My best work includes a touch of memories which allow me to lose myself in the story. Going back to a different place and time. I’m not sure I could ever write in a time I had never lived. I admire writers who can.


  3. I agree with the idea that we discover ourselves and have many selves. I haven’t done it yet, but I’m eager to create a character who does something I’m not real familiar with so I can start doing that to understand him or her a bit better. That brings another aspect into the conversation I guess, finding yourself in something you’ve never done.


  4. isn’t writng like the words to this song?
    I like dreamin’
    Cause dreamin’ can make you mine
    I like dreamin’
    Closing my eyes and feeling fine
    When the lights go down
    I’m holding you so tight
    Got you in my arms
    And it’s paradise ’til the morning light


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